Tuesday, June 29, 2010

Goals by the numbers

Here is a list of my "hopes". For those of you who want to pray for the specific. I get a little nervous when I ask for the specific, because I don't always want to hear the specific answer.
-8/15 Bishops Score- This determines how ready my body is. 8-9 is a "favorable" induction,
I am an 8 as of yesterday. CHECK!
- 55 or more for the Amniocentesis count- This will mean his lungs are ready to breathe.
- 3 hours of labor- The faster the better, the moment this baby starts to show signs of stress it
will be a C-section, which will make it so I can't be with him as soon. FYI: I am going all- natural again. Wish me luck!
- 8 lbs or more- A bigger baby can tolerate surgery better. I do remind Thom he still has to
come out of me, so easy on this one, lets not get too big. I think 8.4 would be nice.
- 48 hours to snuggle- IF he can tolerate the medication, he will not have to be intubated. This
means we can hold him! He can nurse, and snuggle, and meet his brother and sisters and they can hold him, what a great photo opportunity! And then ease into this big painful world. They do not want to do his surgery for 48 hours, so to check all body functions are flowing. This could be our
FAMILY TIME we have been wishing for!
- 2 weeks post surgery home- This one may be a little too hopeful, but you can't begrudge a
mommy for wanting all her chicks in the nest together. The average stay post-op is six weeks. The Cardiologist said they don't remember the kids who do well and he doesn't want to remember us, nor do we want to be memorable.
Thats all Folks! I am a week away from"D" day. Keep those thoughts, prayers and positive affirmations coming our way. Thank-you!
All Our Love

Tuesday, June 15, 2010

Reconizing Miracles

I guess I got a little wordy with that last post, but I did want to add one more tid bit. We are seeing miracles!!! Not in the way we intially hoped for- a healthy heart. But the fact that Severins' heart has compensated for the defects, sometimes creating new defects in order to survive. He is a chubby, otherwise healthy boy. We live here by Primary Childrens. The Docs. there are the best of the best, they have been given a God given talent that we get to be a part of. Technology is measured in leaps and bounds when it comes to healing hearts. Our family is being brought together in a way that I don't think could have been possiable otherwise. Our prayers ARE being heard I assure you of that. We have a strong support group. We can choose to look at the"wrong" but why? when there is so much RIGHT! Our son has the best chance of a long life. Its just about the journey we take. THANK-YOU! & THANKS TO YOU!
All Our Love,
The Quists

Friday, June 11, 2010

Perinatologist Appointment June 11

One more down. On Wednesday I had a strange and very painful "stomach" pain, I say stomach but at this point I really have no idea where any of my organs are. Anywho very painful, and then elevated (for my very low) blood pressure. I called Dr. Nance last night. He didn't seem too worried. So I decided I would lay down and see if I could relax. Well I woke up at 9:00 this morning to Neleh yelling for me. I talked to Dr. Gainer about the pain and she didn't seem to concerned either. I am not the critical one, Severin is and he only is after he comes out, until then life is good. So about this kid; He weighs 6 lbs 2 oz. !!! That is measuring 2 weeks ahead of schedule! Just for fun the tech (Keri who is my fav.) did a 3D of his face. His cord was across his lips and chin, but oh boy he is a Quist! We laughed for 10 mins! Even Keri looked at Thom and said this is definately your son. He has fat cheekies, and the Quist button nose. Thom was hoping that I could have one kid look like me. Not so much. He looks like Johnathen and Neleh and oddly enough like his Auntie Erica. No me, so good thing I know he is mine. Which brings me to my induction date. July 7 which is what I said all along. It would be an easy day for me to remember(7.7.10). Then when we found out we were having a Severin, that made it even cooler. When Dr. Gainer said the seventh I laughed, my first preminition to come true. We are playing a balance game between him being ready, me being ready and not waiting too long so he just come on his own. Dr.Gainer did say I would NOT deliver at UVRMC, if in the next three weeks I do go into labor on my own, I am to go to UVRMC and they will transport me to U of U. What a relief!! I just could not get the warm fuzzies about being in Provo while my baby takes an extremely traumatic life flight to Salt Lake. Go figure. My plans for the next three weeks is: make plenty of frozen dinners, break down and get a stupid cell phone so the CICU Nurses and others can call me anywhere, sit at the pool working on my tan because I will be indoors until next May!, get a pedicure with gel toes so I can have amazing foxy toes in delivery, get my hair colored so I can have youthful looking new mom picts., wax my eyebrows because who knows when I will get to do that again, organize my house so Thom doesn't have to call me looking for food, and just relax and enjoy my kids, Thom, and the end of my last pregnancy.
Loves,
Thom & Angee

Wednesday, June 9, 2010

Cardiologist Appointment-June 9

We met with Dr.Su at the PCMC outpaitent Clinic in Riverton. The good news is nothing has changed, the bad news is nothing has changed. So we are good with that. We met this appointment with a "bring it on attitude". This is what it is and the only way out is through. We are so grateful for medical advances and technology that make survival even possible. We feel truly blessed to have this little man in our life. We have been able to bond with him even before we know if he has hair. We are grateful for a strong support group-all of YOU! More info to follow on Friday YEAH !!
Loves,
Thom and Ang.